If I Could Send One Message Back to My Younger Self: Valuing Self-Care and Self-Worth

Dear younger self, you are strong and capable, but you need to start taking better care of yourself. The journey ahead will be tough, but you are more than capable of overcoming it. Trust yourself to grow stronger with each day.

Past Experiences: Comics, Toys, and Endurance

Remember when you were just five, reading The Dandy and the Beano? That's where it all began. Four years later, you bought your first Bayko set, followed by a Meccano set a year later. These moments marked the beginning of an incredible journey.

If I could send a message back to my past self, I would say, 'Take good care of your comics and toys. One day they’ll be worth a fortune at the auction.' These pieces of childhood are treasures worth preserving.

Pride and Endurance in Being Yourself

I am so proud of you for staying true to yourself. You endured much yet continued to grow and evolve. However, there are a few things I wish you had known:

It might have been easier if you didn't have to endure so much pain and struggle. Do not put people on pedestals, whether they be family, partners, or friends. It's not worth it. Be kind to yourself and show mercy. Forgive your mistakes and remember that you are your own savior. Don't seek validation, even from those closest to you, as they might disappoint you. Your body is not a machine, and you are not a robot. Take breaks and hold on tight. Start by taking a deep breath.

Mistakes and Setbacks

Do not settle for bare minimums. You deserve better. Believe in yourself and your gut feelings. When you feel low, it's normal. This is their insecurity, not yours. Just focus on moving forward.

Remember, sometimes people will make you feel low, but that's fine. Use these experiences as fuel to march forward with courage. Make space for new things in your life. Your life won't change unless you take the same route. You are your own boss and can make the changes you need.

Final Words of Advice

Younger self, take care of yourself. Life is a series of choices, and the choices you make today will shape the person you become tomorrow. Trust in yourself, and never stop growing.

Remember, you are on your journey, and that's okay. Embrace every moment, no matter how tough, and keep moving forward with strength and resilience.